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What Is Your Love Language? Have you ever done a "study" on what your particular love language is? Tentmakers and I have mulled that thought over through the years. Mine is definitely "Acts of Service." I feel warm all over when people do stuff for me out of love with a willing heart. The littlest gesture means a ton. Affirmation, Gifts, Quality Time and Touch are the other four “love languages.” Would you like to share with our little group how YOU like to be shown love? What does it mean to you, what does it do to you, when you are shown love in YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? Go to www.fpgwebs.com/fivelovelang_profile.asp Take the quiz and get back to us! Here’s what my quiz showed and it’s very accurate!
Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love language. If two scores are identical, you are bilingual (you have two primary love languages). If the scores of your primary language and your secondary language are close (for example, 10 and 9 respectively), it indicates both are important to you. Whatever your spouse does to express love in either of these languages will get emotional points with you. The highest score for any one love language is 12. Having a clear picture of your primary and secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior. Think back over the past and ask yourself, "What have I most often requested from my spouse?" Chances are your answer will lie within the scope of your primary and secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet your deepest need for emotional love. Your requests, however, might have come across as nagging or criticizing and thus driven your spouse away.
Please understand that I like gifts, affirmation and physical touch, but to REALLY make points with me, show me a loving act of service or spend some quality time with me doing something “meaningful” and I’m one HAPPY CAMPER! Love (in your language!), Fibromom
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